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Today is National Backward Day and I do not know about you but ever since I was a middle school child, there were moments when I smelled bacon coming from the kitchen but instead of the day being five hours old, it was seventeen, so I shrugged my shoulders while assuming it was seasoning for the ham that mom was preparing. “Everyone, dinner is ready.” Trying to tear ourselves away from the game had always been difficult but mom was adept at timing, so there were only about thirty seconds before halftime. Arriving at the table, to my shock I see two yellow eyes and a smile disguised as a piece of bacon right underneath, along with the thin pieces of “Arnold’s” bread (we had finally graduated from “Wonder”) looking like the eyebrow’s over the eggs. “I did not feel like cooking the usual Sunday meal, so today it is breakfast for dinner.” These infrequent occasions continued over the years and my bride has continued this “tradition,” especially when, also on those rare junctures, the hardest decision of the day, sometimes is deciding on “what’s for dinner.”
If I may, I will take some liberties here and travel “backwards” in time to depict a typical day in the life as a teenager growing up in Brooklyn with imagination sprinkled in with reality. As the entire Madison Square Garden basically became part of England as the traditional “God Save the Queen” was being played by the legendary Freddie Mercury and Queen, the brethren were swaying arm in arm, basking in delight, while the sweat dripped into everyone’s eyes as we said goodnight but did not know that this would become the last U.S. tour on that summer night in July 1982. The encores included one of their beloved tunes, “Another One Bites the Dust,” despite its “disco” sound that had become an instant classic just two years prior when “The Game” was released. Yes, of course, the dynamic duo powerhouse of “We Will Rock You” and “We Are the Champions” was played to perfection as eighteen thousand fans were singing “word-for-word” as I wondered how anything could ever top this moment in my concert history.
Prior to the encores, one of my dreams came true as I was able to see them perform “Fat Bottom Girls” as I have always thought the backing vocals are the best to ever have been recorded in a song and who doesn’t love the obligatory “hand claps.” In addition, how can one live without the “Elvis-like” “Crazy Thing Called Love” and one of the ultimate Queen songs closed out the show with the epic “Tie Your Mother Down.” As the bright lights shone back onto the crowd, one had never seen a happier audience as we were all under the control of arguably the greatest frontman there ever was.
The opener for this incredible evening was none other than Billy Squier, who days earlier had just issued his third studio album- “Emotions in Motion”- after the “life changing” body of work “Don’t Say No,” which had been released just a little more than the year before, which had gifted us with more great songs from this man who had way more than “fifteen minutes of fame.” His set ended with the energetic “Whadda You Want from Me,” of which earlier in the day was blasting out my bedroom windows after I picked up the speakers to place them where the surrounding neighbors could enjoy as well. “Lonely is the Night” was the first song on this magical night as the majority of the attendees were air-guitaring their way into oblivion. There were not too many empty seats for this opener as Billy’s band was tight as well as pounding. The congregation recognized this tune as one of his best despite not being included by the record executives on one of his earlier “greatest hits” compilations.
“Where are you going tonight? Just because it is the summer doesn’t mean you do not have a curfew?” Trying to convince mom that I was going to be safe even though I was headed to that “far away” land, also known as Manhattan or New York City, was always a tough sale. To be fair, the landscape back in 1982 was far different than it is today where let’s just say Midtown had “variety shows” but none that included Mickey or Minnie and the bright lights were sparse, which made it an adventure navigating past all the characters in the street. Back then if you called on Spiderman to help, he was not hanging out on the corner of “forty-second street.” “Mom, I will be fine. Ronnie, Brian, and I are going to see Queen at Madison Square Garden. Ronnie’s older brother, Richie, will be driving us in his van.” (Now the story is correct, whew).
Right before I left the apartment to head to Brighton Beach with Johnny, Vinny, and Tommy, I had to ensure that my brother was in the shower before I raided his closet because his selection of garments gradually caught my eye to the point where swiping became another form of competition for me. I knew that my regular “rock T-shirt” would suffice for the concert later on in the evening, so a quick pull of one of his “netted” (think the net that swoops and catches lobsters) shirts from the bottom of his drawer (his new hiding spot) depicting my “outie” belly button was the preferred beach-ware on this particular day. (Remember when I was a teenager, walking around without a shirt or “cut-offs” was allowed as the belly roll had not formed just yet).
After the game, Johnny and I tell the other guys that we are walking the boardwalk towards Nathan’s in Coney Island as we did not buy the usual sandwich at Brighton. Making our way past the assorted options, the fries at Nathan’s are a must but the “main course” was still undecided, while the store owners are yelling out their options to entice us to purchase from their establishment. Frustrated by our scorn, this one guy screams out “Hey Chubby, how about a diet coke?” Falling to the ground because I could not breathe, Johnny is scolding me to arise because “everyone will know that it’s me that he is talking to.” (Years later we walked by, and the same gentleman stated “Hey, Chubby you should have had that diet coke”). But Johnny is getting the last laugh now as the weight is falling off.
Arriving at Brighton, four guys approach us to play a game of two-hand touch football and since it is the summer, the decision to head in the direction of the boardwalk is made by all to avoid running into people. The dry sand will inhibit our ability because if you have ever worked out on a beach (thanks Cleon!) you know how hard it is to accelerate. As the ball is flying through the air during the “kickoff,” I can see two of them on the outside and they are remaining in their lane. I look over at Tommy and give him a nod of my head while purposely allowing the other team to witness the non-verbal communication. All I needed was the left outside guy “to bite” and as Tommy ran behind me, the other person made the mistake of running towards the middle. Pulling the ball away from Tommy as he really thought I was going to hand it back to him, I tried to cover as much of the ball as I could and in that slight instant, the other team tried to stop and change course, but it was too late. That slight move towards the center was all I needed as one could see the remnants of the sand being thrust in the air by my fast-moving feet while I easily beat them to the goal line.
Before heading to the beach, I came home from my job as a solicitor of the local daily newspapers that have been around since I was a child to a list of grocery items that were strategically left on the kitchen table next to the plate of Norwegian pancakes, which was tightly wrapped in plastic food wrap. Of course, mom had left the house with my youngest brother to also run errands knowing that I would have no other choice but to complete the trip to the supermarket, without hearing the same complaints that it was disrupting the daily trip to Coney Island. She knew that by the time I came back from the beach that I would be too excited to see Queen later on that evening to squawk about running up and down the aisles to cross out each item on the list. What I would give to go back to those moments.
The week days of the summer of 1982 started off the same way as I left the apartment over the “Y&S” store each morning in the dark to meet Ron, his dogs, and the rest of the crew at the fifth hour on the corner of “46th and seventh.” Loading the NY Daily News and the NY Post into the back of his truck as each bundle was passed through to each guy on the assembly line as the last person was responsible for expertly packing it comfortably because more room was needed for the editions that were not our property but that of other store owners who had the unfortunate luck of not being there when the actual trucks of those newspapers dropped them in front of their place of business. Ron, the original GPS, knew the exact times of the drop-offs in a “risky” neighborhood and had the boys jump off his truck to throw the new bundles to one of our guys as I sat with the dogs, as Ron knew I would not participate in the thievery.
My hawking place of business was the “circle” at Grand Army Plaza, where the slightest “fender-bender” could back up traffic for miles and that was my daily wish, but never for anyone to be injured- just enough to where the worst thing I had to worry about was the exhaust from all the idling vehicles. And then it would happen, I would hear a screech, followed by a loud “boom.” When the backlog would build, I immediately ran to the huge pile and carried it with two hands instead of using the sling that could hold up to twenty-to-thirty papers. Using my chin to balance the load, I would direct the drivers to throw the quarters into the open pouch that surrounded my shorts as the sales would skyrocket to the point where I would sell-out like the Mighty Led Zep at MSG and then go sit back down near the water fountain to see if Ron came back with more. “How long have you been waiting?” About fifteen minutes I replied as Ron quickly dropped four more bundles (about fifty in each) knowing that there was still a chance that I could get rid of them all, despite Ron being stuck in the same traffic jam to get to me.
As I am selling to the cars, trucks, and buses, the traffic eases as the “speeders” create the “Frogger” game for me as it almost became a Summer Olympic event because I had to side-step these vehicles just to cross from one side of the street to the other as the light changed colors. For those outside of New York, the “yellow” or “amber” coloring actually means to speed up instead of slowing down because just like early “Dice-Clay” would say- “Hey, Joey I think he is going to try and make it, let’s leave him blanking legless.” Jumping to the curve, all of a sudden, I see Eddie running towards me with this look of exasperation. Knowing that his spot was near Atlantic Avenue, I knew something was wrong as he screams out to me that he was robbed at knife-point as all of his papers were stolen. Realizing that those guys did not follow him, Eddie picks up from the pile that I had next to the fountain and heads around the opposite side of the circle where traffic is heading towards Eastern Parkway as we easily extinguish all the papers that I was allotted, knowing that it would be a “wash” for Ron because as they say, “what goes around, comes around.”
If I did my job correctly you should realize that I went backward to depict a day in my life as a teenager in Sunset Park, Brooklyn during the early 1980’s. You all know that I love to travel backward in time to reminisce about what I have always considered “the glory days.” Today’s setlist will contain songs that contain the word “back” in the title or better yet, tunes that take me back to those wonderful days. (Enjoy!)
1— “On My Way Back Home” by Band of Horses— Love this band. Recently, I have been reminiscing about when the boys were younger and just the other day when I walked down the driveway to retrieve the mail, I could see us playing a game of wiffle ball on the cul-de-sac as our neighbors, Jeff, and Debbie, would watch us play. I think they would get a kick out of our competition, even though we were hitting the ball on to their lawn as we tried softly to retrieve it. Our oldest will be visiting us from Portland in February and to say I am excited is an understatement because in my mind, he is on his way back home. I can still picture his Honda Civic slowly driving away on that fateful day in Rocktober. Since we are now empty nesters, I have been utilizing their bathroom to ensure that we keep the water running through the pipes and I can imagine them looking out the window seeing the forest along with the large body of water as I wonder if that image stays with them as they think about home. One can tell that I love to go backward.
2— “Back to You (MTV Unplugged Version)” by Bryan Adams— In my opinion, Bryan is like “grandma or apple pie” because whenever you need something that fills your heart, his music is there just like the best “comfort food” that you need because the “daily stuff” gets to be too much. The first concert I ever took my oldest to was Bryan at the Beacon Theater. Boy, do I love to go backward in time and look over at him while he was barely into his teenage years as his smile told the story. This version of the song is SO GOOD! Let it take you back in time.
3— “I Wanna Go Back”—by Eddie Money– Boy, do I miss Eddie. His passing in September 2019 was extremely sad and if there is one song that hits hard, it is this one because I wanna go back to when he was at the top of the world. “I wanna go back and do it all over… but I can’t go back I know.” How many times do I sit and wish that I could go back, not forever, but for moments where I could see the memories first hand. Isn’t it amazing after someone passes, the amount of praise that is heaped upon that person comes from places you never thought? I was beyond flabbergasted when I saw James Hetfield perform one of Eddie’s songs at a special concert celebrating Eddie’s catalog. It touched my heart in ways you will never know. Whenever I hear Eddie’s tunes, I am back in Sunset Park on the corner of 48th street, in front of “Izzie’s” wasting my life away, but I would not have it any other way. Miss you Eddie!
4— “Back Where You Belong”—by Foreigner-Dare I say this one song gets Foreigner into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame and the lead singer for this is none other than the lead guitarist, Mick Jones. As I listen in 2024, the tune gets better like the finest wine. This brings me back to the hardwood floor in my rectangular bedroom as I laid with the pillow wrapped around my head with the volume as loud as I could take it. Less than a year after this album (“Double Vision”) was released, we welcomed a new baby into the picture as my world was forever changed with the birth of my younger brother. Mom could now concentrate on her new life, dad still had his “Vega,” and our dog, Heidi, was still in her prime. I was still delivering papers but just two years later would be stationed on the streets of Brooklyn, learning life that no classroom could ever teach.
5— “Come Back”— by The J. Geils Band- When “Love Stinks” was released in June 1980, I was beyond obsessed with this album and especially this track. When the drums and beat kicks into high gear at the 2:35 mark, I am back on Eighth Avenue as a fifteen-year-old, proud as a peacock because I was able to push Graig around in a compact stroller and he attracted a lot of attention, which I did not mind at all. I will never forget when I heard this song being played in the Adam Sandler movie, “Grown Ups,” as I thought only nine other people knew about this song. I also love “No Anchovies Please” which ends side one on this classic album. I am back in time when The J. Geils Band ruled the world.
6— “I Don’t Want to Be Alone”- by Billy Joel–First song on side two of the only Billy Joel album that I purchased- “Glass Houses”- when it was released in March 1980. I had just turned fifteen and my “home away from home” was the Pershing school yard. Around this time is when we all met the 48th street crew, which was led by Joe, the future school teacher who had muscles on top of his muscles and was one of the nicest guys’ you could ever encounter. For some reason, when I hear this song, I am on the 49th street side playing handball against Cathy. Could be my most favorite Billy Joel song.
7— “Rock It (Prime Jive)”- by Queen–Talk about an album that changed my life- “The Game” – was also issued in 1980 (June) as I would stay inside my bedroom to listen to each and every song on both sides. Again, this is the first song on side two with Roger managing the lead vocals, Freddie does start it off. Brian has sent me the link to this song, and I finally have the story straight- we were both at MSG to see Queen, along with Slats. “… What do you do… to get to feel alive… you go downtown… and get some of that prime jive… I said mama… I ain’t crazy, I’m alright… alright… come on baby said its alright… to rock and roll on a Saturday night…” And when Brian takes off on the guitar, I am over the moon. “WE WANT SOME PRIME JIVE… WE WANT SOME PRIME JIVE…” Crank this one way up. Wish I could go back to that legendary night. “Get down!”
8— “If This Is It”- by Huey Lewis & The News–What would the 1980’s be without Huey Lewis? I just read an article where he was interviewed, and he had to explain that his band was not a pop unit but rather an act that was built on rock, blues, and jazz but was able to become popular based on songs he crafted that appealed to a larger audience. I totally understand what he means. Anyway, it seemed that each year there was another big song that was released that skyrocketed the band to the top. Ronnie and I went to see them at a sold-out show at Madison Square Garden. This has always been one of my favorites by Mr. Lewis. “… If this is it… please let me know… If this ain’t love… you’d better let me go… If this is it… I want to know… if this ain’t love baby… just say so…”
9— “Abacab”- by Genesis – Each time I hear this track, I am in the front seat where a former mentor, “Mikey,” drove me home on a late Saturday afternoon after working the full day at Omaha. My uncle typically dropped me off but on this one day, Mike informed John that he could take me home. I remember driving up “54th street” from fourth avenue as Phil Collin’s drumming was blasting out his window, after I asked him to crank it up. He had no idea who the song was by and at the time I thought it was one of the coolest rock songs on the radio. For those out there who think that Phil Collins is a “Disney” guy only, think again. He has to be considered one of the greatest drummers, as one of the best vocalists in our lifetime. Believe it or not, Phil played percussion on George Harrison’s masterpiece “All Things Must Pass” triple album but back then, crediting other artist’s was not allowed.
10— “Freedom at Point Zero”- by Jefferson Starship –Mom always said that I looked like the boy on the cover of this extremely underrated album of the same title. The Airplane had turned into the Starship and this version added Mickey Thomas to the mix, although one of the original’s, Paul Kanter, sang lead for this great song, although one can hear Mickey in the background. I remember during Mr. Goldberg’s music class, I used to bring in the “rock” albums, while I battled Loida and her disco bodies of work. Of course, I brought this classic to the class and would love to go backward for one day.
11— “Addicted to Love”- by Robert Palmer– Talk about owning the 1980’s- was there a bigger artist than the late, great Robert Palmer. Famously known for crafting the best videos later on in the decade, especially for this song. How can anyone not like this tune? “The lights are on… but you’re not home… your mind is not your own…. Your heart sweats… your body shakes… another kiss is what it takes…” And what about air-guitaring? Wow. I can see (and hear) an argument that this was the biggest song of the 1980’s? What do you think?
12— “Back in Black”- by AC/DC-Sometimes in life it is hard to move on and after Bon Scott passed away in February 1980, the band thought about hanging it up. But then Mr. Brian Johnson pumped new life into this incredible Australian unit that sent them to the stardom, where nothing could stand in their way. Folks, for those “of age” they know how incredible this time period was because of this iconic album and each time I hear this song I am back in the school yard with the professors of rock, getting the best education from a boom box. “Back in Black” is arguably the greatest album in the history of music. Pound for pound, there are very few like it.
13— “I Need You”- by Billy Squier-Folks, I wish I could make the younger generation understand how big Billy Squier was during the years from 1981 through 1987. It amazes me that most people on the planet scratch their head and ask, “who is Billy Squier?” Actually, it hurts. My favorite part of this song occurs at the 2:19 mark when Billy exclaims the following- “well I forget all my sorrows, I forget all my pain… I relinquish my doubts, at the sound of your name… I can feel your desire when I walk through that door… I believe in the power that can even the score…” I wish I could go back in time with all of you who do not know who Billy is and walk the streets of Sunset Park in 1982, where every car passing by had his music blasting through the speakers.
14— “Back Off Boogaloo”- by Ringo Starr-Sometimes you may forget what Ringo Starr has meant to the world of music as he seems to walk in the shadows of the other three Beatles, despite him being the oldest brother. But once you seriously go through his solo catalog you realize that he crafted so many great songs. From what I can tell, he is one of the nicest people to have ever walked this planet and he just continues to have fun.
15— “I Want You Back”- by Jackson 5– I know I say it all the time, but this song could be considered one of the best ever, no? Not only is Michael the rising star but the bass guitar playing is absolutely stupendous. And I am not a “trained ear,” but it is impossible not to follow along with the thumping bass lines. I wish I could dance because this is the song that I would pick to do a solo on the stage at Madison Square Garden. Boy, do I wish I could have seen the Jackson 5 in concert. I would go back for that.
16— “Working My Way Back to You”- by The Four Seasons-Believe it or not, Frankie and the boys are still touring. They will bring their “last encores” to Radio City Music Hall on Friday March 22nd. Mr. Valli is the only original surviving member, but you know they will still bring down the house with songs like these. There is something so special associated with their “sound” as the harmonizations have to be considered as one of the best ever. These short tunes pack a powerful punch, and it is impossible to not sing along with Frankie. And what about the musicianship in the background? Absolutely flawless.
17— “There’s a Kind of Hush”- by Herman’s Hermits-Over the past month, my friend Mike has sent the link to this song when they appeared on the Ed Sullivan show and everything about it just brings you back. He claims that I look like Peter, but I do not see it. Anyway, how great was this unit? Their songs are beyond addictive. I can listen to this tune all day long. If you search for the video, you can tell why “people of age” want to go back to the way things used to be.
18— “Why” by Frankie Avalon– Obviously, I am too young to recognize how popular Mr. Avalon was back in his heyday but I did get a taste of it when “Grease” was released in 1978. This American heartthrob is still with us, and I remember this tune from “a long time ago.” Frankie has worked with so many people, including Bob Hope- for those who are too young to remember Mr. Hope, he was everything. Anyway, Frankie has a deep catalog, go explore.
19— “The Happiest Girl in the Whole U.S.A.” by Donna Fargo– Thanks to my brother Rich who sent me the link to this song about two weeks ago and I knew at some point it was going to make a setlist. And here it is, going back to mom sitting at the kitchen table sipping her coffee while serenading the rest of us as she drifted off into another world. There was an infamous Country radio station on the AM dial that mom played incessantly as we received her half of the education of music.
20— “Two People in the World” by Little Anthony & the Imperials– These last songs are dedicated to mom and dad as there are moments where I would love to go back to that apartment on 53rd street on a Sunday morning to listen to their music. Those instances were exceedingly special, and the memories come roaring back.
21— “I’m Leaving It Up to You” by Dale & Grace– I remember when I was a kid when we watched the “Donny & Marie” variety hour show and they used to perform this classic, but I had to put the version that I would hear around the house. I had forgotten about this tune and during my search for “oldies” this came to the forefront as again I can picture mom singing this with such a zest.
22— “You’re in My Heart” by Rod Stewart– Whenever I put on “Foot Loose & Fancy Free” by Rod Stewart, the first person that comes to mind is my mother and oh boy, with this “sad sound” the tears have come out of nowhere because she will always be in my heart and my soul. There was never one time where she would tell me to close the door whenever I put on either side to this unknown classic album. For those who do not know by now, this tune is about his favorite football (soccer) team, Celtic United. The musicians that Rod had played on this album is staggering and included Carmine Appice, Phil Chen, and David Foster (yes, that guy). Anyway, I love this song in so many ways because it is about sports and that is what I lived for when I was growing up. Mom was also the athlete, as well as the glue to our family and boy do I wish I could go backward to spend one more day. Have fun with National Backward Day!