Playlist: The Common Thread

I am so thankful for my bride, my boys, and my entire family as well as the abundant number of friends who have entered into my world at various stages of my life. Although there are many who I do not see as often or not at all since either one of us left that certain phase, they have never left my heart and that is something I am eternally grateful for, because, in my opinion, memories are the most precious gifts we will ever receive.

I want to thank you for reading this blog as music will always remain a passion and believe it or not, there are many times where I have encountered “writer’s block” and wondered where the inspiration would come from. I was going to skip this week because I was not “feeling it” but then I received a request from a very good friend who suggested that I tell the readers about the commonality of my extreme musical tastes. He is not the only one to wonder how my appetite can range from “Dean Martin to Megadeth,” which is a phrase I have used very often to describe what is included in my now defunct I-pod classic.

At first, I brushed it off because that would take me way out of my comfort zone and most of us would rather travel down the beaten path of least resistance. As soon as Brian mentioned it at our “Sunday morning” ritual of either throwing the football or softball around with another buddy of mine, Rick, (these gentlemen are just like me as the eternal youth is in our minds despite the physical evidence of maybe not being able to get out of bed on Monday morning’s) I have not stopped thinking about how I can articulate the common thread.  

It has been more than 24 hours and the first thing that comes to mind is passion. I believe the artists or bands that I have strongly bonded with throughout my life encompass an endless devotion to music such that “at the end of the day,” nothing else matters. Connecting the members of Metallica (because I just mentioned one of their greatest songs) to a Dean Martin, Patsy Cline, Elvis, Sam Cooke, or Karen Carpenter in my mind, is easy because their entire lives have been dedicated to what they seemingly love and that is music. In addition, growing up with a mother and father who listened with as much passion as their beloved artists who contributed to the endless joy of our lives, through their emotion of a song, whether or not it was written by themselves, is something that nourished our souls.  

“Heart and Soul” are the factors that have now entered my thought process as I gravitate towards those whom I believe would perform in front of just a handful of family or friends just as easily as if there were thousands of seats that were filled with strangers who love them. If I feel it, then I believe that person (or persons) is giving their heart and soul and it does not matter if the production includes loud guitars with smashing drums or a choir with a soft piano and violin.  

Dedication is the last attribute I will offer up (I know there are probably others) as a common thread to the diverse menu of artists that are included in my musical library. Many of you are probably saying that the four characteristics that I offered up as linking the various musical stalwarts together, all mean the same thing in some way shape or form, and I would not disagree with that conclusion. As I mentioned, this is something that I could have easily walked away from and there would not be a posting this week.

Just think of this playlist of my I-pod as you push the shuffle button, and these songs are what possibly could come up randomly. Back in the early part of this Century, I would make playlists with “empty” CD’s and distribute to friends and one particular memory is when Sal asked his wife, Mimi, who created this “crazy” list of songs where one tune was “1000 mph” and then the next one was in the early part of the 20^th century. “It was Errol,” Mimi said as it quickly became clear to Sal that it had to be me. Since it is Thanksgiving, I will try to keep the offerings where it can be played at the dinner table.

Again, thank you for continuing to read my postings! (Enjoy)

1— “Faded Love” by Patsy Cline—I can picture my mother at the kitchen table on a Sunday morning with her hands around the coffee cup and singing her heart out along with the great Patsy Cline. Her voice is hypnotizing to the point where I feel like I am in a yoga class and just about to fall asleep as it took only a minute or so to float upstream with Patsy. Her delivery was so flawless as I have to trust my mother’s taste and agree with her assessment that Ms. Cline was the ultimate female singer ever. Her vocal prowess created the passion in her brethren. Is there a better way to start off a Thanksgiving playlist? I think not, I bow to my mom and Patsy!  

2— “Nothing Else Matters”—by Metallica– The 30^th anniversary of this landmark album occurred a few months back and there was a dedication album (“The Blacklist”) whereby the song that was selected the most was this tune. Elton John informed Metallica that this tune was a masterpiece and I believe James had tears in his eyes. Funny story with this song, when this album came out in 1991, my best friend Johnny informed me that he wanted this tune to be played at his funeral. Fast forward to this past September as we are sitting in his living room, and I told his wife that he selected this track to be played at his funeral. News to her she said out loud, and when I look over at Johnny, he has this look on his face like he never heard the song. He takes out his phone and starts to play it for Roe but even he does not even recognize it. I sat there stunned, thanking my lucky stars that nothing had happened to him because I would have strongly suggested this be played at the funeral home. This is a lesson for the “youngin’s”- it stinks getting old. The passion that Metallica has put on full display since the 1980’s and the music within them has enriched my life. I am forever grateful.  

3— “For You”— by Dean Martin- TCM is currently running a two-hour documentary- “The King of Cool”- which is absolutely spectacular. I am proof positive that as one gets older, the appreciation for the precious gifts that our prior generations were able to see and hear while they were growing up, the ability to recognize the impressiveness of Dean Martin was easily digested because I gave it a chance. As I have been saying since I started this blog, it is never too late to discover fantastic music, whether it be old or new. Dean always appeared to be so relaxed, and his delivery was effortless as his voice melts like a piece of butter on hotcakes that were just removed from the griddle to your plate. His music always touches my heart and soul.

4— “Satellite”- by Collective Soul– The most precious moments of my entire life occurred during the birth of our two sons as I never knew what it was like to cry and not even know it. The tears flowed down my cheeks as the doctor lifted them both towards the ceiling and he looked at me and said, “why are you crying?” It is one of the few times in life where I can actually say that I had tears of joy. Ed Roland wrote this song for his son years ago in the hope that when his son grew older, he could state that his dad was cool. I have been saying that for years, Ed Roland is one of the coolest gentleman on the planet and the lyrics for this tune express what I believe to be true for every parent. “I will be your days… and I will be your nights… and I will watch over you… just like a satellite…” Talk about a unit that has dedication? The record industry purposely set out to ruin their career but through their perseverance, as well as a love for their gift to us all, they continued to create the magic that their brethren soak in with every body of work that they distribute. This could be the best parent song ever crafted. Thanks to my bride, my boys and Collective Soul for what they all have brought to my life.

5—” Goodbye to Love”- by The Carpenters– After throwing the football around for what seemed like an eternity but was only 25 minutes, Rick, Brian and I headed to the Goodie Shop to have our Sunday morning coffee and this discussion started as well as the topic of our favorite singers. Rick quickly jumped in and said Karen Carpenter had the smoothest delivery and when she sang, he just had to stop what he was doing just to listen to her magical voice. I could not have said it any better.  Folks, in my opinion, it is Patsy as “1A” and Karen as “1B”- Ms. Carpenter’s voice melts me as I am immediately in a trance in a world far, far away from here. As I have mentioned many times in the past, my mom and I shared “(They Long to Be) Close to You” throughout my childhood and Karen’s voice also brings tears of joy to my eyes. Love her.

6— “I Still Love You”— by KISS– The MTV Unplugged version of this song is the only version I listen to now, with no offense to the original recording that appears on “Creatures of the Night.” Folks, I implore you to listen to this tune with an open mind, forget that it is KISS, take away all your doubts about liking a KISS song because this is most likely the best vocal performance by Paul Stanley, as a member of this legendary band. As I mentioned in one of my posts a few weeks ago, my brother, who is (was) not the biggest KISS fan, absolutely loves this version. I bet both of us put the volume up while lip syncing along with Paul. Remember, Bruce Kulick is on the acoustic guitar and his solo at the 3:50 mark is astounding.   When Paul holds the note at the 4:44 spot until 4:56 and then continues to the 5:15 mark, I am absolutely floored. Tell me this is not passionate?! 

7— “Sad Mood”—by Sam Cooke– Wow every time I hear Sam sing, I am just blown away on his majestic voice which has to be considered one of the best ever. “He can sing the phone book” and I would make the purchase. There are days where I say that I was born too late because I was never able to witness such eminence and believe me, I wish I could have been there on that one night in Miami. And then there are days when I am around folks who have never heard of Tesla, and I feel really old. But as the saying goes- “age is just a number”- it is how you feel and whenever I hear Sam Cooke, I am thankful!

8— “Big Bad Bill (Is Sweet William Now)”—by Van Halen– I am still in the midst of listening to Van Halen like 24 hours a day as I have almost completed the battle of the leaves as it appears most have fallen, except for the Oaks. Anyway, this song has to be one of the coolest tunes that VH ever recorded because it includes their dad on clarinet and proves the passion that the boys had for music as they took time out of their hard-rock life to produce an “old-style” tune that has to put a smile on anyone’s face. I will say it again, there is no one that can sing this tune like Mr. Roth. “Big Bad Bill is sweet William now… doing the dishes… moppin’ up that floor…” Absolute brilliance.   

9— “I Only Want to Be with You”— by Dusty Springfield– There is something about Dusty that draws me in just like when grandma is making that special dinner or dessert. Her voice is mesmerizing as I usually drift backwards in time to 46^th street when my mom would take my brother and I down to fifth avenue to wait in line at Anchor’s Bank. We would both play with the plush valor rope that had a hook at the gold poles as the amount of people waiting for the next teller was astounding and whenever it was our turn, I would look up at the person behind what seemed like “jail bars” while wondering what my mother was doing. My vision of Dusty was with a “beehive” hairdo and that was the look that my mother specialized in for many years. As I look back through the old photos of my mom, I was amazed on how beautiful she really was, absolutely stunning. You see what memories music generates? Whenever I hear Dusty, I see my mom.  

10— “Forever Loving You”—by Tesla– I know I sound like a broken record, but this band is absolutely stellar, and they can take it down with the best of them. This track comes off their latest album (but not for long) “Shock” which was produced by Phil Collen, of Def Leppard fame. Again, I will say listen with an open ear and forget the fact that you may have never heard of them, or that they are a “hair-band” (they are NOT) or whatever reason you are using to not listen to this phenomenal band. This group has endured for the past 40 years in a business where the brethren know and love them but much of the population does not even know who they are? That is passion. That is dedication. This song will melt your heart and then you can play it for that someone special. I give Thanks to each member of Tesla; you have changed my life for the better!

11— “There Goes My Everything”—by Engelbert Humperdinck– This song lands in my top 20 songs of all-time as I can honestly say that this track is included on almost every setlist that I have created for all types of parties. On each New Year’s Eve this tune is included as I move the table to make room to dance with my lovely bride while closing my eyes and drifting off into another world. Engelbert is still touring, how’s that for dedication? I recently found out that a very dear friend of mine, Gloria, loves him as much as her sister and suggested that this could be a top ten list. You never know but of course I will say right off the bat that I am a complete novice of his history but of course I have delved into his catalog. He has to be considered one of the all-time greats. Thank you, Mr. Humperdinck for this timeless classic, as it brings a tear to my eyes.

12— “Refugee”—by Kansas– Of course, the easy selection would have been “Dust in the Wind” but at this point I have written so much about this track that I have decided to go with an almost brand-new song with Mr. Ronnie Platt on vocals. This legendary band has been severely ignored by seemingly everyone, except for the brethren and I do not care what anyone else thinks, this unit deserves to be in the rock and roll hall of fame. Their first album was recorded in two days where they would have to play live into a tape and any mistakes would nullify what was done where they had to start all over again. I don’t want to hear anything about “new” members because except for Ronnie, the majority of the band have been touring for over 30 years together. Whenever I hear this song, I am back at the Copernicus Center in Chicago IL as I took some of my best friends to see Kansas the night of when the Cubs celebrated its world series victory in 2016. As previously mentioned, it was a Friday night and I was so pumped as I could feel the “magic in the air” and for the first time ever, I was asked to sit down in my seat by an attendant because “I was disturbing the others behind me.” Once I heard the opening notes to this tune, I jumped out of my seat as Emily, Taylor and Ben were probably wondering where I was going. I excused myself like the annoying patron who has to go to the bathroom at the best part and skidded around legs and knees to get to the end of the row so I could stand against the huge pole that was holding up the building. Once Ronnie started to sing, I was in my own world.

13— “He’s So Fine”—by The Chiffons– Growing up in a household that revered the classics gave me an edge, in my mind, that not only can I master what I am currently listen to but to be able to sing verbatim songs like this, brings me so much joy. The rhythm and blues of the 1960’s with many female groups will always be something I worship because they put their heart and soul into everything they did. Folks, “they don’t make songs like this anymore!”

14—”Waiting for a Girl Like You”-by Foreigner– I remember wanting this to be my wedding song but I knew it needed to be a two-way street, but this is a song that is meant for my bride. After a shocking end, the girl that I was waiting for walked into my life and I never thought it was going to happen. My mother must have had that “woman’s intuition” because after the first time that she met my wife, I think she knew that I was going to end up marrying her. Before my mom passed, my bride and her were so close that there were times when my mother would look at me while letting me know that she was talking to her in private, so I needed to leave. This is what I think of when I hear this tune, that common thread of connection was so tight that they were the best of friends, and my heart was filled with joy as I looked on from afar, yet ironically these two women are the closest friends I have ever held.

15— “Don’t”—by Elvis Presley-This is dedicated to my dad as I believe this is his favorite song, if not- then in the top five tunes- by Elvis. I know that Mr. Presley did not write his own songs but the passion that he put into every recording in his illustrious career has never been matched. I can picture both of my parent’s sitting at the breakfast table simply leaving their bodies as they listened with their heart to the magic of Elvis. Admittedly, I believe this is one of his best recordings as I sit there listening without making a sound as I drift back to 46^th street in the building where we lived, thinking of when my dad would dress up as Santa in Johnny Boy’s apartment and then walk across the roof to our side while actually opening a door to the roof which made it seem so life like that, we would all scream for Santa. I think of the endless get-togethers with our family as well as playing so many games on the street and sidewalk with my friends. Again, I am so grateful for all the memories.   

16— “Drive”—by The Cars– “Who’s gonna tell you when… it’s too late… who’s gonna tell you things… aren’t so great?” Every time I hear the opening lines to this track, I get a lump in my throat thinking of the late Benjamin Orr (and now Ric Ocasek) as the beauty of this tune is staggering. I know what you are thinking. Why didn’t I drop the Cars when they made this song? Yes, it is “pop,” but it is a cut above the rest and there was no way that I could ever leave one of my ultimate groups ever. These five guys dedicated their entire life to music, and we are all the beneficiaries. Who knows if they would have reunited with Ben had he not passed away but at least they did before Ric left us a few years ago? Folks, ask any one of my childhood friends who was my favorite group during the 1970’s and 1980’s. I love this band beyond words.

17— “My Best Friend’s Wedding”—by The Chicks– I believe it comes down to The Chicks and Little Big Town as my two favorite Country acts for the past two decades. Natalie Maines voice is something that I cannot live with out and if there has been one group that has persevered through their dedication to music it has been The Chicks as it seemed a majority of the population wanted them gone, all because of an opinion. I hope they continue to make music because they are a special talent which this world needs. Thank you, Ladies, for being who you are!

18— “Funny How Time Slips Away”—by Willie Nelson– I did not grab on to Willie’s catalog until I was on the seventh hole, so to speak, and once I received it while absorbing it into my bloodstream, it made my life so much more enjoyable. There are hundreds of tunes to choose from and if there has been anyone that has “lived for music,” it has to be Willie as he has given his whole life to creating songs. He is an American Treasure, and it should be on your bucket list to see him in concert.

19— “The Garden”—by Rush– This is the last song on their last album before Neil Peart passed away and what a way to end it all with such a poignant effort. Mr. Peart’s lyrics are so direct that it strikes the heart- “… The measure of a life is a measure of love and respect… so hard to earn, so easily burned… The measure of a life is a measure of love and respect… so hard to earn, so easily burned… like the fullness of time… a garden to nurture and protect…” I still have the “Time Stand Still” documentary on DVR, which is the best one I have ever seen for any band or artist as it depicts the fan base that is so devoted to the music of Rush. It tracks their last tour with various “super fans” that were impacted by Neil, Geddy, and Alex whereby each person has their own story of “fanaticalness” (which is jaw-dropping- if you think I am obsessed, you need to see this). As the Canadian trio played their last concert on August 1, 2015, at “The Forum” in Inglewood CA, the camera footage captures each one of the people who traveled from their homes to see the last ever show as they become friends through the common thread. Last month as I was watching it for like the 100^th time, my bride walked in at the end as this song played as the credits rolled, along with numerous photos of the band and their families, while the tears rolled down my eyes. She looked at me and I did not try to hide the emotion. Hey, that is another common thread—emotion! Happy Thanksgiving.

My Top 10 List for VAN HALEN

As a teenager growing up in the Sunset Park section of Brooklyn there were many days and nights spent on the stoop of someone’s house whether it be for playing ball while hopping on one leg where if you let the spalding bounce more than once you lost your turn, the largest section was usually the lower part which was often utilized as a “base” for manhunt (or “Cocolevio” as we called it in Brooklyn) where if one just touched that step with his or her toe, everyone on your team was free again to roam 46^th or 47^th street (between 6^th and 9^th avenues to keep some boundaries), it was a place where Moms’ would bring out goodies to the neighborhood kids (except Johnny Boy, LOL) or it was just home where conversations could last for hours and pick up the next day. The stoop was where one of us who had a lighter (no, not me) would melt crayons into bottle caps to use when we played “skelzies in the gutter.” If one was being chased, either for fun or real, and your friend was standing on the stoop, you knew there was an escape hatch as they scrambled to open the basement door to the lower entrance of their homes as to not draw attention to those parents, who were “upstairs,” as they let you literally “crash” while locking the door behind them so the intruder could not come in. If the “bad guy” was still around, we knew we could wait them out as either Mom, Dad, Grandma or Grandpa would subtly make a grand appearance onto the stoop which forced the trouble away until the next time. And many nights the stoop was used for board games, mainly backgammon for me.

Transforming into someone famous by imitation was often our stage and one keen memory which I will forever remember whenever someone mentions two of the greatest words in the history of the world – “Van Halen” is when a childhood friend, John was sitting with Colleen (as their brick houses were attached) as I approached the stoop and he broke out into this spectacular emulation of Diamond Dave as he flawlessly mimicked every note, facial expression while belting out “Could This Be Magic.” I was absolutely floored while wishing I could do the same. John was slightly younger than me but his affection for Van Halen, like most of Sunset Park and the Universe by the early 1980’s, was as intense as anything I knew at that time. “How did you like that Whitey?” He referred to me as “Whitey” because my hair was so blonde as a kid, it looked like I had white hair. John and Colleen probably would never remember that occurrence but when it came to music, as you all know, I often recall spontaneous moments and they remain with me forever.

Folks, I honestly would not know how my life would be without Van Halen because from the time I was a mid-teenager to the time I turned 20, my world revolved around Eddie, Alex, Dave and Michael. The entire Sunset Park area knew exactly when the next album would be released, and this was in the world that I long for- the life before the internet. The outlets we had were the radio, rock magazines, and chatter- do not ask me how the talk came about but nine times out of ten, it was spot on. By the time “Women and Children” was released in 1980, it was really no contest as VH was the greatest live band as their energy was so tremendous, it was hypnotizing. I found out just a few weeks ago while speaking to my dad that my mother was worried about me when I was a teenager because “I never saw someone shake his head up and down so violently” she would lament to him while wondering if they should step in and “get me a doctor!”

Attending Madison Square Garden to see them from 1980 through 1984 was just jaw dropping as I have never seen an audience as captivated when the boys were at the top of their game. I bet most of Brooklyn were at those concerts where they would play at least three nights in a row every time they came to New York. And back in those days, a ticket was bought for the first night and you held on to your passage the next few nights while holding half the stub with a $10 bill underneath to slide to the attendants working back then, there was always more bodies than seats whenever Van Halen came to town. I would not care where I stood (there was no sitting EVER during those shows) as long as I was in the building- this became my mantra- “as long as I am in the building my life is complete.”

Despite having “covers” on their albums, every body of work released with Mr. Roth had the hunger that attracted the starved as each Van Halen fan wanted at least an album a year and they served us a new dish from 1978 through 1982. As previously mentioned, the build up of excitement for the release of “Fair Warning” was at a fever pitch despite the cold winter months after “Women” and I can recall this older dude in the neighborhood, Pierre, who knew I loved VH. “Eddie goes back to being Eddie on Fair Warning as the guitar is in the forefront again!!” Okay, I thought to myself, I really do not know what was meant because “Tora, Tora” and “Loss of Control” were not recorded with a banjo, but his enthusiasm was contagious. In April 1981, I am a sophomore at Brooklyn Tech and “Fair Warning” is issued. I remember going as fast as I could to the Little Record Store in Bay Ridge, racing back to the house, carefully slicing the plastic cover surrounding the album so as to not let the record fall to the floor. As I prepared the stereo, I can recall letting down the first side while quickly getting into position, lying on my back with the pillow there to protect my ears. I can recall hearing lightning bolts in the speakers as the beginning of “Mean Street” begins and from that point onward I knew what Pierre was talking about. My jaw dropped and instantaneously I knew from the first song that this was going to “be the bomb.” I did not need to read any critics slight of hand because they wish they could have created the magic that Van Halen did as a unit.

I will admit that “Diver Down” which was released one year later, almost to the date, is probably the body of work that will usually end up on the bottom of the brethren’s least favorite meal, but I will always maintain that it ended on a high note as side two contains four of their most well-known songs, beginning with “Little Guitars.” As I mentioned in my dedication to Eddie, seeing them performing this live at Madison Square Garden was life altering as this track definitely ends up in their top 25 tunes ever voted on by the brethren, if not higher. Sensing that something was going awry, the streak of distributing a new album each year ended with “Diver” and when “1984” was released on the ninth day of that year, the first single played on the radio was “Jump.”

Hearing “Jump” for the first time made me believe that VH had brought on another member to play the keyboards, sort of what Sabbath did on “Technical Ecstasy” but none of my sources had anything on a new member. First assumption is that Dave wanted this type of song because he loved covers but as it turns out, it was Eddie. Initially I was really upset because this seemed like a pop song and I was of age where I usually dropped a band once they did this (see The Police), but I could not leave my marriage to Van Halen because of songs like “Drop Dead Legs,” “Panama,” and “Hot for Teacher.”  So, despite the fact that “1984” had become their most successful commercial recording, which brought more of the general public through the door, my reaction was “the more, the merrier!”

Attending the Garden for the “1984” tour was the ultimate as I was able to hear them pull everything in their catalog up until that point which included “Jump.” Witnessing Diamond Dave in the prime of his life was sensational as he did things on stage that no other front man had ever done and no one since has achieved. He would leap from heights that were frightening, would use a sword like a jump rope and actually just sit on the edge of the stage at MSG while telling a story while the rest of the guys took a break. Eddie was a guitar God and ruled the world at this time, do not let anyone tell you different as he had that never ending smile to go along with the most awe-inspiring guitar solos that left many in tears. His brother, Alex, looked like he was an octopus, especially during “Hot for Teacher” as it always sounds like there are at least two other people helping him with that tune. His drum solos were also phenomenal as I can remember the entire crowd “air-drumming” in the dark as his technique was stunning. Michael was also a beast on bass, and he would have solos as well. This band was a well-oiled machine during that tour, and no one could come close to matching them from 1978-1985.

Then the divorce occurred in 1985 and it was like the day the New York Mets traded Tom Seaver on June 15, 1977, when I stayed in my room and cried for days. I could not fathom a world without Van Halen, and this was not acceptable to me but just like many other things in life that comes at us whether we are ready or not, I adjusted.

And then another generation goes by as the “word on the street” is that Diamond Dave is really coming back this time, unlike when he aggravated everyone at the MTV awards. Unfortunately for Mr. Anthony he was not included, and I know it must have stung but in a weird way I believe he understood because Eddie had a chance to play with his son. In 2007, my life had come full circle because by that time my bride and I had two sons of our own and maybe, just maybe at some point I would be able to take both of them to see “The King’s.” In November of that year with all the noise of “option adjustable–rate mortgages” or “buy now and pay later” rippling through the world, a prelude to the Great Recession, I was able to see the conquering heroes with six others, including my brother and Johnny-Boy. As mentioned, I was so worried if they were going to like the show and my reputation was on the line as I had bragged vibrantly for months about how great this band was going to be. And then Boom! Just like that “You Really Got Me” and “I’m the One” starts off the show, my worries dissipated at that moment. I can recall both Eddie and Dave being in better shape than when they played in the 1980’s, especially Eddie. I had tears in my eyes that night as I never wanted that excitement to end as we all went to the concession stand to browse the T-shirts and other memorabilia. It was another dream come true.

Five years later, the band, with Wolfie on bass, put out “A Different Kind of Truth” and despite all the noise about the first single released – “Tattoo”- (which I absolutely love), the album is a rock-solid effort put forth, albeit with original parts being crafted at the early stage of their career. Another dream of mine comes to fruition as March 1, 2012, will go down as one of the greatest nights in my entire life as I was able to take my boys to see them at Madison Square Garden when they were 17 and 15. Imagine taking your offspring to observe something that is so dear to your heart and having it occur at nearly the same stage of your life as a teenager? I have to hand it to Wolfie as he picked the setlist which brought out the “stone-cold” classics and as we exited the Garden that night, I again had tears in my eyes knowing that this one night would forever be etched in my heart.

When Eddie passed away in 2020, there was a part of me that died that day as well as I considered him family despite never even meeting him in person. I still feel for his wife and Wolfie and hope time will heal some of the loss. I know Eddie has to be proud looking down on his son with the talent that this young man possesses, and I know he would say his son is better than he was. Being a father, I know he believes that because as a dad I know my boys have taken it to a level which I’ll never reach. And on the flip side, I have my dad to thank for making me (as well as mom) the man I am today. I watched him in his prime playing ball and there was no one better.

Trying to whittle down seven albums to just ten songs is a herculean task because I know I cannot survive without any of them. There is not one body of work that they crafted whereby I hit the “next” button or ever picked up the needle in my bedroom to skip over a song, which is just not allowed and should be written into law. I find myself these days obsessing on “Women & Children First” and I want to thank my childhood friend, John, for emulating the great Diamond Dave on his stoop during the 1980’s as it usually is the first thing I think of whenever somebody utters the words “Van Halen.” This list are my “preferences” and will not be the most “popular” choices- which I ABSOLUTELY LOVE but by now you cannot be surprised by the less often traveled road. For all of you out there who are not familiar with every song that they ever created, please start off with any of the first six albums or “A Different Truth” and dive headfirst into their entire existence. There will never be another Van Halen with Roth at the helm! Here are my top ten at this moment in time: (Enjoy)

10— “Stay Frosty” —As mentioned last month, this now enters my top ten songs for Van Halen (at the moment), and I have listened to it extensively over the last six weeks as I tackle raking up the leaves that still continue to fall. But of course, I take time out to use the rake as a guitar while feverishly move my fingers up and down the wooden stick to mimic the guitar god known as EVH. Of course, in my opinion, I believe that the lyrics were written by Dave as they are all over the place such as- “… God guides us on our journey… but careful with those feet…” and then goes on to say, “use my hand, I won’t look.” This song is in the vein of “Ice Cream Man” which is not on the top ten (but again I love it) as Eddie’s solos are so enticing, along with the crushing groove by an uncle and his nephew. My favorite part begins at the 3:08 when Eddie puts the emphasis on “wah, wah, wah” with his guitar- his second guitar solo could be the best he has ever done on any VH album. No other way around this- CRANK IT UP! The ending reminds me of Hot for Teacher!

9— “Drop Dead Legs”— This is another epic where for four minutes I hardly get any leaves raked because I am air-guitaring like there is no other person on the planet. I put the volume up to dangerous levels, as I did back in 1984, but try to compensate by running around the grass. Does that count? Not really, right? The crunchy flow is emphasized by Alex as it feels like he is sitting right on my lobes crushing the drums into my ear canals as I beg for more. And when Eddie’s solo begins at the 2:37 mark, this could be the best solo he has ever done on any VH album. Wait, didn’t I just say that? I know I have said that “1984” cannot compete with the first four albums but this is a stone cold classic. I have to give credit where credit is due. Diamond Dave is the best, nothing else to really say.

8— “D.O.A.”— Whenever I hear this song I think of my “brother” Slats, as he was another huge fan of VH in Sunset Park as we both attended the MSG shows and he is a drummer. In the beginning of the tune where Alex drops his notes at the 14 second mark, Slats would mimic him perfectly, as this is a tune which I believe is a drummers dream because of the snapping head-banging beat. (Maybe this is one of those tunes where my mother caught me violently whipping my head north to south?) Slats also loved the Diamond Dave line- “they found a dirty face kid in a garbage can.” Who doesn’t? Taken from their second offering as you all know “II” changed my life forever. This is a “garage” song because I can picture the four of them playing this in their youth all by themselves, I have always maintained that this unit (maybe except for Diamond) would play in front of family and friends or 100,000 at some outdoor venue, the only thing that mattered was the music. Love the ending of the song.

7— “Little Guitars (Intro Included)”- If I ever take guitar lessons from my oldest son, this would be the first tune that I would want to learn as the 42 second intro mesmerized me from the moment, I heard it back in 1982. And then when the electric guitar enters with the machine (Alex & Michael) come crashing in through the door you know it is just a matter of time before Mr. Roth makes his entrance and who is better? Not too many, as Dave begins the opening line at the 49 second mark with the infamous “Senorita, I’m in trouble again… And I can’t get free (Senorita)… You’re exactly what the doctored ordered… come on, talk to me,” I am speechless. And is there a better chorus as Eddie closely plays behind Diamonds vocals- “catch as catch… catch as catch… can, anybody in their right mind could see.” Seeing them play this live at Madison Square Garden was a dream come true because if there was one song that I longed to hear at a concert, this was it. Many of my “dreams come true” have come to life because of Eddie, Alex, Dave and Michael.

6—” Romeo Delight”- This song will now always take me back to our family dinner table (we still gather for meals together at least once a week but back when they were kids, it was every night) as it was the winter of 2012 and the prize at the end of the yellow brick road was seeing them live at Madison Square Garden on March 1^st. For at least three months, I was schooling my boys on every Van Halen album at the supper time, despite my bride’s attempt to stop this trend. This was only a phase I informed her as they needed to know what they were going to listen to, I filled their plates, almost intravenously with a heavy dose of “Women” as well as all the others. I would say it was about a week before the show, this song came on the list and my youngest always sits to my right. I implored him to get psyched up by head-banging and he was not as aggressive as I wanted him to be so at the 3:52 mark of the song, I took my right hand, grabbed his head with my palm and pushed it up and down 13 times because that’s how the band ends the tune with that lucky number all crunching on their instruments. Of course, my bride gave me the look as my youngest sat there stunned, probably afraid of what was going to come the night of the show. Folks, this is one of their greatest tunes ever, I will not hear any slack from anyone. \m/ \m/

5— “Mean Street”— I was 16 years old when this song was released and Eddie was 26, only a ten-year difference but when one realizes that this was their fourth album and he created this sound, unlike anything out at that time, it really boggles the mind. We should all do the “Wayne’s World” salute, I actually get down on both knees and do a yoga stretch at his feet. To this day I know every “nook and cranny” of this tune starting with the legend belting out- “… At night I walk this stinkin’ street past the crazies on my block… and I see the same old faces and I hear that same old talk…” Not only is this one of the greatest songs to “air-guitar” to, but it is also one of the best to “air-drum.” I have to go on record and state that this is the utmost song to ever begin an album. “Lord, strike that poor boy down!” For the past two weeks while cleaning up the leaves, I have only listened to Van Halen songs and my neighbors have most likely caught me air-guitaring to this unbelievable tune.

4— “Ain’t Talking About Love”— I am in Madison Square Garden now in the early 1980’s and seeing the four of them up on the greatest stage in the world playing this tune with no worries in the world. Eddie starts off the funfest with the classic riff which riles up the congregation near the front of the stage as Dave joins the fray and then when Michael joins him for the chorus, it is pure bliss. And then right about the 1:50 mark as Dave laments that he has “been to the edge” all of a sudden, the band would stop playing as Mr. Roth went into one of his wild stories of debauchery as the audience would keenly listen to every word this “god” said as he could have commanded us to do anything. When Eddie, Michael and Alex would rejoin him the place would erupt as many of the brethren would point to this track as the ultimate live Van Halen song ever. At the 2:58 mark, a huge light would shine down on the lower audience as 9,000 to 10,000 arms were seen raising into the air as everyone would scream “Hey, Hey, Hey!” Folks, I am telling you that this was as close to an outer-body experience for multitudes of people. And yes, in 2012, my boys were able to experience this life-altering song which included the shiny lights, fists pumping, as we all yelled “Hey, Hey, Hey!” It does not get much better than that and I am forever grateful to Van Halen for letting me into their world.

3— “Hot for Teacher”— Is there a song that has a better beginning or especially, the ending? I think not. I can recall flipping over the album to side two, jumping on the floor before the music started and heard the numerous drums flailing all about as my jaw hit the floor. I hopped back up took the needle off the record and had to hear that again. Are you kidding me? I bet most VH fans would say that this is their “Magnum Opus,” and I would have no argument because I would say if one looked up the meaning of Van Halen in the dictionary, this song just may be referenced as the denotation. It defines VH with the crushing drums, pulsating bass and phenomenal guitar playing along with the craziness of its lead singer as the immorality drips from every angle, especially the video. C’mon we all know we would say- “Wait a second, what do you think the teacher is gonna look like this year?” I know it is not “PC,” but we all know we did it as males or females. This past week while doing the leaves when this song came on, I started to run around the entire property with a rake in hand as it brings me the same excitement that it did 37 years ago while never clearing a leaf for the entire 4:42. Folks, the ending of this tune is so fantastic, that it has to land as the ultimate if there is a category for such a thing. Brings tears to the eyes, that I will never again experience this live. Thank you, EVH!

2— “I’m The One”— After my conversation with my dad a few weeks ago, I am convinced that this just may be the song that worried my mother because if one cannot bang their head incessantly with speed and force, then there is nothing more to say. ‘Honey- I’m the one, the one, you love.” Fast forward to 2004 when I was working at MBIA and became part of the morning gym rats and I put this tune on for one of our boot camp classes. Just picture 6:15 in the morning and this song comes blaring out of the speakers? Better than any coffee could ever do to get you to wake up. Remember up top when I said “this could be the best EVH guitar solo ever recorded”- well I have to say it again as his guitar playing is stupendous. My new buddies saw me transformed into another person because I could not stop “going crazy” at each station as the sweat would pour off of me (everyone stayed at least one station away from me). Then on a dime at the 2:50 mark, the music just stops and all you hear are these beautiful vocals singing in unison, like a holiday tune, “bop bada, shoobe doo wah, bop bada, shoobe do wah” and I think my gym rat friends were flabbergasted at the entire production. This is from their debut album, imagine seeing them performing this live in 1978 through 1985? I don’t have to, I was there! And again in 2007 and 2012. It does not get much better than this.

1— “Could This Be Magic?”—My obsession with “Women and Children First” is off the charts and I can recall when I used to purchase all of my music from the now closed “J&R Music Store” located on an entire block in lower Manhattan on my lunch breaks, they would have a “batch of CD’s” that were on sale for $4.99 and I would see numerous copies of this legendary album. I would walk over to the sales- person and ask how could they sell such a classic album for $5? They would look at the CD, look at me, had no idea who it was and would walk away. Please do not tell me that you do not know this song because it will crush me. As mentioned above, I will always have my memory of John performing to perfection this treasure of a song, especially the part where Diamond Dave says- “Edward… Thank ya.” My experience growing up in Sunset Park was magical and much of it occurred on a stoop.

Playlist: A Tribute to Sesame Street

Back on this day in 1969, an educational children’s television show, “Sesame Street,” debuted on the Public Broadcasting System, which was channel 13 for our family as we resided in Brooklyn N.Y. I was four years old when the first episode was broadcast and I can recall throughout the entire decade of the 1970’s and 1980’s that I watched this show with such adoration, mainly because of the innocence of the production. I loved the way the children were taught by puppets, whom to this day still appear to me as actual people, and by the neighborhood adults. It was a melting pot of all backgrounds, cultures and inclusiveness that spurred on other creations of teaching the young through education, traditions as well as “real life” events. The kindness displayed by every actor and puppet is the biggest attraction for me as well as the purity of each child’s appearance on this landmark show.

I remember being mesmerized as a child by “Guy Smiley” as he would interview a loaf of bread or a tree and even now, as an adult, I watch those clips with a smile from ear-to-ear. Who did not love Big Bird, Bert & Ernie, Oscar the Grouch, Gordon, Susan, Bob or Mr. Hooper? I can recall when Mr. Hooper suddenly passed away in 1983 and even as a high-school senior I was wondering how they would address it on the show. By that time, my younger brother was just four years old, and I introduced him to the show as I would sit with him any chance I could to watch Sesame Street. My recollection is vivid as I watched with such sorrow as Big Bird could not understand why he could not give his drawing of Mr. Hooper despite the attempts of all the other of his favorite adults to let him know that he had passed away. “Big Bird, Mr. Hooper is not coming back.” It still brings tears to my eyes. “That’s how I drew this picture… from memory.”

As we all know, music has been and will always be a huge part of the show as numerous artists have made appearances and the ability of the producers to create lyrics from popular songs to teach the children, see “Letter B,” is one of the many gifts of this monumental show. Stay with me as I know this is a stretch, but this week’s playlist will center around Sesame Street, by way of artists who performed on the set or songs that contain the following words- “Teach,” “Street,” “Puppet,” or “Child.” On my flight back to LGA in early Rocktober from Chicago, I was able to view the documentary- “Street Gang: How We Got to Sesame Street”-which is simply fantastic and could go down as the greatest biopic ever constructed. I know that every day of my life I ask- “Can you tell me how to get to Sesame Street?”- as I need to get back to the innocence. Oh, by the way, this playlist can be utilized for a dinner party. (Enjoy!)

1— “Teach Your Children’” by Crosby, Stills, Nash & Young—The first half of this song speaks to how we as adults should teach our children and the second half is the reverse. I know it has come full circle for me because I learn from my children more and more each day as I am amazed at their knowledge, patience and humanity. What else can be said about the CSNY harmonizing vocal prowess, arguably one of the premier vocal groups of all-time. This tune is beautiful with that “flower power” rock groove tinged with a country flavor that makes this dish an amazing body of work. Teaching and learning should never end just because we reach a certain grade or level, bettering ourselves should be a goal for every person of any denomination- just like they teach us on Sesame Street.

2— “I’d Like to Teach the World to Sing (In Perfect Harmony)”—by The New Seekers– I love this song so much because it takes me back to my own Sesame Street days as a grade schooler who found this track so pleasing to the ears. I did not even mind when I saw it as a commercial for Coke because it is a real thing when we all strive to be standing hand in hand as well as praying for peace throughout the land. We need this song now more than ever and the delightful vocals remind me of the holiday season, which is here already.

3— “I’m Your Puppet”— by James and Bobby Purify- This treasure of a song was recorded in 1966, are you kidding me? Folks, legendary tunes like this are the backbone of music, in my opinion, as it almost seems that the “early” stage of any genre created the best of the best. I know the lyrics are not totally in line with the theme but at the end of the day, it is about love and if love does not describe the Sesame Street sentiment, then nothing does. My favorite part of this tune has always been at the 56 second mark when they sing- “Snap your finger and I’ll turn you some flips.”  There is an emphasis on the “S”- hey, this song is sponsored by the letter “S.”

4— “Aquarius/Let the Sunshine In”- by The 5^th Dimension– This song was used in an episode in 1998 where it was turned into “Telly’s Aquarium” where it is sung by captive fish. Originally written for the rock opera- “Hair” back in 1969 where young people were growing their hair out by calling for change. The Age of Aquarius is for harmony, understanding, sympathy and trust which are all characteristics included on the Street. The bass line on this track is infectious and probably attracted many accomplished bass guitarists’ today. This song will always remain in my top 50 tunes of all-time as again tracks like these created during the late 1960’s, during those turbulent times, is astounding to bask in the limelight as “they do not make songs like this anymore.”

5—” El Condor Pasa (If I Could)”- by Simon & Garfunkel– Paul Simon performed this on Sesame Street in 1977 and then on “The Muppet Show” in 1980. Paul says he would listen to this Andean folk melody performed by a South American group who played a version of this song instrumentally and he decided to put words to it. Unfortunately for him, he was sued by the estate of Daniel Robles as he recorded this song in 1913. Mr. Simon added new words, but a court agreed that the melody did not belong to him. Anyway, this beautiful rendition is stunning, especially Art’s part when he laments- “… A man gets tied to the ground… he gives the world its saddest sound… it’s saddest sound…” Taken from their epic finale – “Bridge Over Troubled Water”- sadly reminds the rest of us of what could have been if they continued. But at least we have their treasure chest left behind to put a smile on our faces.  

6— “Shiny Happy People”— by R.E.M.– The band performed this in 1999 as “Furry Happy Monsters” and despite being a fruit filled bubblegum song, I absolutely loved this when it was released in 1991- yes, the same 1991 where I dove head-first into the world of metal but as you should all know by now, I always have room for the sweet stuff. Assisted by Kate Pierson from the B-52’s, her recognizable background vocal adds to the splendor of the tune. Mr. Stipe said he wrote it because while he was growing up, he loved songs by The Monkees, The Archies and The Banana Splits- who didn’t? It also displayed a different side to Michael as he always seemed to come across as this really serious person, but it put out the fun side to him and the band.    

7— “Your Smiling Face”—by James Taylor– Mr. Taylor serenaded Oscar the Grouch during a visit in 1984 by changing the title to “That Grouchy Face.” I love the opening lyrics- “… whenever I see your smiling face… I have to smile myself… because I love you, yes I do…” The Street was all about love and when I think of all the smiling faces on all the actors as well as the audience watching the show, there is nothing better.

8— “Splish Splash”—by Bobby Darin-Sesame Street encouraged children to take baths with this classic by Bobby Darin with Elmo taking the lead in later years of the show. I can remember my dad playing this song at almost every party he threw with my mom and family members because it made everyone get off the couch and on to the dance floor. I could have sworn that I saw an episode when I was a kid where Ernie was sitting in the tub, anyway, this was the beginning of rock and roll and Mr. Darin had it going on. This song will also forever remind me of the “Happy Days” show which was aired every Tuesday night at 8:00 p.m. Those were the days.  

9— “O-o-h Child”— by The Five Stairsteps– Did you know that this tune usually lands in Rolling Stone’s list of top 500 songs of all-time. I will say it again, the R&B era of the 1960’s and 1970’s is in a class by itself and may never again be replicated. (But Bruno Mars with his new band- “Silk Sonic”- has made a new album – “An Evening with Silk Sonic” will be released this Friday and based on the songs issued to date, it could change the world). This song was written in 1970 when turbulent times were abounded, and Stan Vincent sent a message of hope with the following lyrics sung by the Burke family – “Some day, yeah… we’ll walk in the rays of a beautiful sun… some day… when the world is much brighter…” Again, just like Sesame Street, still applicable today.

10— “Dancing in the Street”—by Martha Reeves & The Vandellas– I believe the story goes that Martha was working in an administrative position at the “Hit Factory” and the female person that was wanted to sing this song was either late or could not make it. Martha stepped in and her life changed forever, while also changing ours with this timeless classic. There are many versions of this tune, including Van Halen, which I could have easily put here but Martha’s version will always be my favorite. I can picture all the Muppets dancing on Sesame Street. Love it.

11— “On the Sunny Side of the Street”—by Willie Nelson & Tony Bennett– I know Willie originally did this by himself and I like that version but the production with Mr. Bennett sends this tune into orbit for me. Tony adds the spice while Willie’s guitar solo is off the charts. This timeless classic was written close to 100 years ago and has been performed by various artists’ but in my opinion, this rendition recorded less than 15 years ago is my all-time favorite. It kind of reminds me of the Sesame Street song- “Sunny days…sweeping the clouds away” as the message is the same- life can be complete on the sunny side of the street.

12— “Hey There Delilah”—by Plain White T’s– Performed on Sesame Street in 2009 to this song- “…Oh, I’m the letter T… and he, he’s the letter T… oh we, we are the letter T…” There are certain songs that bring you back to a time or a place and for me it will always remind me of when my boys were in grade school as we would spend the first week of July on Cape Cod in Brewster. It was the summers of 2005 and 2006 when we arrive on Route 6A, I believe, that would take you from one end of the Cape to the other end. The first thing our family would do once we reached Brewster was to go to this breakfast/lunch place and eat whatever we wanted as the teenagers behind the grill were masters of breakfast or lunch. As we sat there when they were around 11 and 8, this song came on over their speakers and it quickly became one of my most favorite tunes. Hey there Plain White T’s, thank you for making one of the most enjoyable songs in my lifetime, it will forever take me back to my family.

13— “I’m Yours”—by Jason Mraz– Jason performed this with Elmo in 2009 as others included Big Bird joined in to “Let’s Go Outdoors” to this classic. “…Because I won’t stay inside no more, no more… I cannot wait to go outdoors…” Yet another song that will forever remind me of my family, when my oldest son graduated from the 8^th grade this tune became my bride’s and his “song together.” I would watch in delight whenever this track would come on the radio in the car, and they would sing together in harmony. To this day, whenever we hear this song, my wife will look over at me with such love as she exclaims “this is our song.”

14—”Just the Way You Are”-by Billy Joel– Billy performed this with Marlee Martin on the first episode of season 20 as they serenaded Oscar the Grouch— “Just be grouchy, really grouchy… you’ve done it really well so far… I’ll take you just the way you are” as Marlee used sign language. As you may or may not know, I am not the biggest Billy Joel fan, but I absolutely love many of his tunes. Consider me the “greatest hits” type of fan and the only album I ever purchased as a teenager was “Glass Houses” which was more of a rock and roll body of work. Obviously, I recognize his “hall-of-fame-ness” and this track is a classic from “The Stranger” album. Apparently, he did not want to record this track, but the story goes that Linda Ronstadt and Phoebe Snow convinced him to do the song. Luckily, he followed their advice.

15— “With a Little Help from My Friends”—by Joe Cocker-This Beatle classic which was made more famous by Joe Cocker was utilized on The Street in 1992 when Moe Cocker and his dog friends lament things they cannot do such as fetch a stick or fight a flea. I have to admit that I like Joe’s version better than the Beatles, I know that is “sac-religious”, but his bluesy spin is legendary. He put his entire heart and soul into singing this while making it his own. There are so many memories when I hear this tune, first that comes to mind is watching “The Wonder Years” with Kevin and his family as this was the theme song. (By the way, I am also loving the 2021 Wonder Years with Dean growing up in Alabama- best new show of the year). Of course, John Belushi comes to mind with his perfect depiction of Joe during his days with Saturday Night Live. Folks, Joe Cocker was a musical treasure of this world, and I am so thankful for his legion of music left behind for all of us to love. By the way, he performed this tune at Woodstock in 1969 and again in 1994. We miss you, Joe!  

16— “Love Child”—by Diana Ross & The Supremes– Crafted in 1968 it tells the story of a mother giving birth to a child out of wedlock and just like the passing of Mr. Hooper, sometimes there is pain in our lives as depicted by this story. However, by the end the words are piercing – “…But I’ll always love you… wait, wait, won’t you wait now, hold on… I’ll always love you…” Unfortunately, turbulence followed Motown as Holland-Dozier-Holland exited, while Berry Gordy put Diana in the forefront as Mary Wilson and Cindy Birdsong did not even sing background vocals. Though they did appear with Diana on The Ed Sullivan show wearing drab sweatpants with no shoes to match the subject of the song.  

17— “Superstition”—by Stevie Wonder– Probably the most famous Sesame Street performance ever back in April 1973 as Stevie and his band tore it up with an absolutely stellar performance of his legendary song. Stevie worked in the words “Sesame Street” into the song as the joy on everyone’s face was infectious and is the reason why this show will last forever. Joy, love and innocence is what I live for! The kid at the top step rocking back and forth is priceless. Thank God for Stevie Wonder- where would we be without him?  

18— “Let It Be”—by The Beatles-I will never forget the first time I saw this song being performed by Muppets singing “Letter B, Letter B, Letter B… yeah Letter B” I was absolutely blown away as I could not stop laughing, I found it to be so fantastic. Last week, I was part of a group that was volunteering their time to test the eyesight of children in kindergarten and first grade, and I was in my glory. I spent my time with them asking them how to spell or giving them math questions so as to make learning fun as they all raised their hand to be heard. I could have stayed there all day long just soaking in their youth and that is why Sesame Street is still appealing to me after all these years because they make learning fun.

19— “Where the Streets Have No Name”—by U2– I believe Bono wrote this song about experience in Ireland where someone’s religious and/or financial status could be known by the name of the street where one resided, and he longed for escaping from such a flawed place. This arguably could be one of the greatest songs written in the history of music as it is a message of hope while wishing for a world that is not divided by any criterion. The creators of Sesame Street took on a huge responsibility of being the role model of fashioning diversity and inclusiveness during one of the most turbulent times in our nation’s history and tried to construct such a place that Bono wishes the world could enjoy. As the tornado that tore through this country during the late 1960’s into the 1970’s, these innovators took a chance on establishing tranquility through puppet interactions with children as well as integrating all types of nationalities on one street, that being Sesame Street. As I look around me today, 52 years later, we need Sesame Street more than ever.

A Brothers’ Playlist

Today is my brothers’ birthday and I wanted to celebrate it by creating a list of songs that either has the word “brother” in the title of the tune or identify some of the most popular bands that consist of siblings which have created some of the best music ever. I am not too sure how to use this list because as you are all aware, my musical taste can turn at a moment’s notice, but I would say maybe a long walk or some other form of moderate exercise with bursts of crazy energy. I am only 21 months older than him but at times throughout our lives, our preferences could not be further apart, especially when we were growing up together as our friends were totally different and the activities we participated were at opposite ends of the spectrum.

When we were in grade school his love and affection for animals is something that I will never achieve in this lifetime, especially after our childhood dog, Heidi, had to be put down and I never had a pet again. When we spent our pre-teen summer days in Otisville N.Y., I was always out the door at 7:30 a.m. headed up to the school building that hosted kickball, archery, softball, basketball and so many other activities. I would come home at 12:30 p.m. and he either was still sleeping or just had breakfast. I can recall I begged him to come one time, hoping that he would love it as much as I did, and he was picked to play third base during an indoor kickball game. I believe it was the first inning and this guy, Gary, kicked the ball so hard and guess where it landed? Right in my brothers’ face as he never had a chance (neither would I) and as the “pins and needles” filled his head, he walked out of the gymnasium, headed back to the house to go back to bed. No, he never returned.

As he grew into his teenage years, I was jealous of his clothes and would sneak every opportunity I had into his closet to look as cool as he did. This thievery would lead to awful battles so instead of trying to “borrow” his clothes, I started to buy shirts from the stores that he would frequent but he would always be one step ahead of me by finding something cool and unique. He and Danny would eventually find the clubs as they grew older while Johnny and I continued to play ball with the “All-Outs” and “Outlaws.”

I believe our penchant for music is similar in many ways, although I would say that his body of work is way more eclectic than mine. His openness to various types of music, especially when we were teenagers and I was hell bent for, well you know what, is a testament to his continuing diverse musical library. There are numerous artists and bands that he is familiar with where I would not even be considered a novice. We have attended numerous shows together, including Alice-In-Chains (with Mr. DuVall on vocals), KISS and Iron Maiden to name a few. I was shocked when he informed me that he loves the KISS MTV unplugged album where I believe his favorite is “I Still Love You” where Paul Stanley just absolutely crushes it on vocals.

My brother is a man of integrity with a huge heart, and I want to wish him a very Happy Birthday. I love you brother and I hope you like this selection of tunes. (Enjoy!):

1— “Let Your Love Flow’” by Bellamy Brothers—I believe we have our mother to thank for this track as her love of country music was legendary because it always told a story. This single was released in January 1976 when I was still ten and he had just turned nine, but it seemed that this track stayed with us for a very long time as it was a “crossover” hit, appearing on “pop” radio as well. There were many trips in the green “Vega” to Otisville as this song played as everyone sang along to, even my dad and to this day, this tune is irresistible because it takes me back to the glory days of 46^th street as well as the summers he and I spent with our grandparents and uncle. I can listen to this track all day long. Many thanks go out to Howard and David for singing this magical tune.

2— “Too Late to Turn Back Now”—by Cornelius Brothers & Sister Rose– Eddie, Carter and Rose created this magic back in 1972 and folks I am telling you, it is very hard to top this song as there is something so special about the rhythm, blues and soul of the early 1970’s. Unfortunately, the band broke up in 1976 and Carter left us in 1991. Eddie, the lead singer for this unbelievable tune is an ordained minister these days while his sister Rose is still performing.  

3— “Brother, Brother”— by Carole King- It is hard to believe that Carole was just inducted this past weekend as her talent and influence has blessed us all for over 50 years. Taken from her third solo album- “Music”- this is a treasure of a song, and the lyrics bring a tear to the eye. The entire production is flawless and feels like it could have fit on “Tapestry.” It also conjures up memories for Marvin Gaye as it is what he says on his infamous “What’s Going On?” tune. I am not sure if he ever covered this track of Ms. King but if he did, you know he would have done an excellent job. The more I listen to this tune, the more I can see (hear) Marvin doing it.  

4— “M’Lady”- by Sly & The Family Stone– Slyvester Stewart, otherwise known as Sly, is a legendary musician and songwriter who created some of the greatest music during the late 1960’s into the early 1970’s like few others as he utilized his brother, Freddie and his sister, Rose, along with other “family” members to generate a fusion of funk, psychedelic soul and rock that I do not believe has ever been recreated. My buddy, Slats, loves this tune so much that when I created a CD (back in the day) for him with various songs that he was not too familiar with, he made me promise that “M’Lady” would be on it. I believe he was able to jam on the drums with “Cynthia and Jerry” of this infamous band in the comfy confines of BB Kings back in the day and to this day his face lights up when he tells the story.  

5—” Strawberry Letter 23”- by The Brothers Johnson– George and Louis crafted one of the greatest tunes in the history of music with this timeless classic which was written by Johnny Shuggie Otis back in 1977. This song will forever take me back to Otisville N.Y. because I believe this was played every summer from 1977 through the early 1980’s. If you have not heard this timeless classic in a while, go back, put on a nice set of headphones and just relax. The band broke up in 1982 and unfortunately Louis passed away in 2015 at the age of 60. This is another tune that I can listen to everyday for the rest of my life as the musicianship is stellar along with the fantastic vocals, both lead and backing.

6— “I Want You Back”— by Jackson 5– This almost made my top ten list for MJ, so I decided to put it on this list because the brothers were really spectacular during the 1970’s and this is proof positive that they changed the world forever with their great music. I believe on every party list that I have ever created; this song has been included and I clearly remember everyone hitting the dance floor at that 2018 holiday party for the LG group that was legendary in so many ways. A few years ago, I saw this video of Little Big Town when they were asked what some of their most favorite Jackson 5 songs and they performed this a Capella in this theater with just the four of them sitting in a row and they nailed it. One could see the joy in their faces as they grooved along to this timeless classic. Obviously, there is no better version than the original recipe. My oldest son shared a video of the musicians, specifically the guitarist, who created the riffs, and these gentlemen are legendary studio musicians that helped skyrocket this Indiana based outfit to the moon.  

7— “Only Human”—by The Jonas Brothers– I know what you are thinking but I absolutely love this song and have listened to this track maybe more times in the last few years than any other tune. I still do not know the words, I make them up as I go along- C’mon we all know that everyone does that- even decades later you realize that you have been singing it wrong, but you do not fix it, you go right back to the way you have sung it all those years. When I switched jobs at the end of 2019, as I walked into the cafeteria this tune was playing over the speakers and I finally felt that I could say that I knew something that was from this Century and not being rock or metal. As I watched the workers singing and dancing as they prepared breakfast, I had this huge smile. This is what music is supposed to do, take you away from the daily troubles- crank it up! Thanks Kevin, Joe and Nick for crafting a nice song!

8— “Nights on Broadway”—by Bee Gees-Arguably the greatest brother band of all-time, no? So many songs to choose from as I love the early Bee Gees as well as the 1970’s version. Believe it or not, this track was released before “Jive Talking” which seemed to jettison their career towards the Saturday Night Fever stardom. What I love about this tune is the way it changes direction at the 2:36 mark but it still fits like a glove as it almost seems part of a different song. What else can be said about their harmonizing vocal prowess? It is absolutely stunning and if I had a vote in the best vocal performances ever, this trio would land at the top. After seeing the documentary about their lives, I never realized how much they struggled to achieve their success, I was baffled because I cannot even name another singing entity that comes close to them and assumed they lived like royalty. One can never go wrong with the Bee Gees, thank you Barry, Robin and Maurice for enriching our lives and for enduring like a family despite the disagreements along the way. There will never be another Bee Gees, sorry Dave.

9— “What You Need”— by INXS– If I had to pick one song that represented the 1980’s, I would point to this incredible tune which has everything, including a saxophone. The infectious groove is too much to take as I dance around the room, especially at the 1:48 mark as the snare drums is spotlighted in preparation for the nice guitar solo that begins at 1:57. If I am not mistaken, I saw them at Madison Square Garden and one of my brother’s best friend at the time, Peter, was also there; he could not believe that I was there because he always assumed I loved the heavier stuff. And just like my brother, I enjoy all types of good music. Thank you, Tim, Jon and Andrew (Farriss) for being part of a fantastic band that spread joy to so many across this universe.

10— “Never Here Alone”—by Collective Soul– I can never get enough of Collective Soul as “Afterwords” is also another one of my favorite albums lead by Ed Roland, along with his brother Dean, who plays the rhythm guitar and if there is one thing about this band is that they always have rhythm. Of course, there is that classic “hook” that reels you right in as your head starts to travel north to south from the very beginning as Ed’s sweet vocal prowess grabs you by the throat and when the rest of the gang joins in at the 29 second mark, it will leave you breathless, wondering why this unit does not receive the acclaim it truly deserves. Folks, this band has earned its right to be in the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame, no question in my mind as they have NEVER released a bad record. The brethren know how much pain these guys went through with the record company that tried to end their career, but their perseverance was too strong, even for the machine. I will always bow to this band in absolute awe and meeting them in person was a dream come true.

11— “Are You Gonna Be My Girl”—by Jet– I can remember when this song came out in 2003 and I was blown away as it seemed like they were the 21^st Century version of the Rolling Stones mixed in with the Stray Cats that created this “throwback” vibe that was sorely missing at this juncture. Nic and Chris Cester were the engine of this Australian unit that cranked out more than a few great tunes. If I am not mistaken, this probably is their most well-known track as I know I used it more than a few times for the MBIA boot camp class as we all jumped around at each station with pure joy. If this tune does not get you out of your seat, then I give up. Crank this baby up!

12— “I Put the Finger on You”—by AC/DC– I know my brother knows this song all too well. Folks, when AC/DC put out “For Those About to Rock” I must have played it a million times and he knows that this was always one of my favorites by another Australian band, although this unit are legends across the world. (With no offense to Jet). Angus initial riff is so hypnotizing to me that I am completely under their spell and would follow any orders that were given. And when Brian and Mr. Rudd enter at the six second mark, I am already at 60 mph (remember that saying – “going from zero to sixty in 6 seconds?”). Angus and Malcolm were such a powerful duo with a zest for life and their entire world revolved around music. And I will say that my brother and I are in that zone, although we listen while the Young brothers create the magic that we both love. All hail AC/DC!!

13— “Hear About it Later”—by Van Halen– It is April 1981 and the buzz for the new Van Halen album, “Fair Warning,” had been burning through the winter months as the word on the street was that it was more “guitar” driven- which I could and will never understand because any album with Eddie on it has to be “guitar” driven. Anyway, I was attending Brooklyn Tech while my brother made the long trek to Lincoln High School near Coney Island and maybe he was not as attuned for the new VH album to hit, I knew that he enjoys it as much as I do- evidenced by his attendance to the reunion in 2007 with Wolfie on bass. When the album was released, it became one of their best-selling body of work mainly because of “Unchained” but as I have always maintained, every band had to end each side on a strong note and this absolute classic ends side one of this treasure. I can recall leaving Brooklyn Tech and one of the football players had this “souped up” car with speakers blazing out the back as this tune was blasting as we all exited. Usually, I would have been running to the DeKalb Avenue station, but I waited to hear the entire song and when Eddie blasts off at the 2:50 mark with his electrifying solo, what else can be said? And who else was there to put me on another planet? Alex with his head-banging drumming theatrics is just too much to take. On a separate note, my phone must be attuned to all things “rock” so it seems every other day I am fed another story on how Sammy keeps disparaging Diamond Dave and despite my love for Van Hagar, he NEVER created a song that could match even this lesser-known classic. Please Sammy, stop with the mud slinging because your catalog cannot hold a candle to Mr. Roth’s time spent with Eddie, Alex and Michael. It has never been and will never be close. Please see the movie “Air Heads” and take note of the question- “Sammy or Dave?” The door is slammed closed whenever someone says “Sammy.” Diamond Dave will ALWAYS rule.

14—”Yesterday Don’t Mean S**t”-by Pantera– I believe at some point all siblings experience a period of tough times and of course there is a reason for picking this track because at the end of the day we are family with the past being the past. Now I know this track explodes with power than any other on this playlist as I was purposely trying to build up with edgier and harder bands, with Pantera taking it to another level. Darrell and Vinnie Paul have to be considered the best brother duo ever in the metal genre as the guitar riffs and baffling drumming screams into your headphones just as loud as Phil vocals, while Rex’s bass lines will remind you that you have a heartbeat as it seems to pulse in rhythm as you will either bang your head north to south or throw away your headphones. Folks, this s**t is so good that is scares me (oh wait that was last week’s post) because I cannot get enough of it—for those delving into their catalog, this comes from “Reinventing the Steel” which is a flat-out metal standard. Mr. Anselmo is so intriguing to me and there is a part of myself that would have loved to have spent one night in his being at a concert during their heyday. Dimebag and Vinnie, you are terribly missed! Rest in peace!

15— “I Got You”—by Stone Temple Pilots-Taking it way down from the craziness of Pantera, if I am not mistaken, I believe this is one of my brothers’ favorite songs by STP, with the late Scott Weiland. I think he points to the lyrics as it paints a picture that is extremely vivid as I think his concern for Mr. Weiland was apparent as I think he would have helped Scott with anything that he needed because that is the type of person my brother is. This unheralded classic is from the 1999 release of “No. 4” as the brothers, Dean and Robert DeLeo, were at the height of their career with STP. I know the brothers are still recording today, with Jeff Gutt on vocals after both Scott and Chester Bennington passed away. Yes, Chester took over after Scott died. I saw STP with Mr. Weiland during their heyday and had a feeling that if I did not go there might not be a chance as Mr. Weiland’s demons were so apparent. The sad thing is that he was a gem with this unit and with no offense to his time spent with Slash and Duff with Velvet Revolver, he will forever be known for putting STP on the map. But one has to hand it to the DeLeo brothers for keeping their dream alive!

16— “There’s Gold in Them Hills”—by The Black Crowes– Rich and Chris Robinson were a huge part of my musical listening career for decades as I worshipped the ground they walked on, and this will forever be my ultimate song by the brothers. I will never forget our younger brother saying with disgust- “who creates a song like this in 2008?” My bride and kids will watch in amazement on how much this song transforms me to another planet and I can tell that even they question why. But I have no explanation, I love what I love. From the very first time I heard this tune I knew instantaneously that it would not only be my most favorite tune by the Black Crowes but would break through into my top 10 songs of all-time. I believe this is the greatest vocal performance by Chris ever and the tranquility of the production is as close to heaven as it gets. I cannot say enough about this tune, it lifts me high above the clouds. “Tell dear mother… that I miss her… but things are different now… there’s nothing I can do…”

17— “In My Room”—by The Beach Boys– I know my father says that the Beach Boys ruined rock and roll but I have to say that this treasure of a song, performed by the Wilson brothers (Brian, Carl and Dennis) all the way back in 1963 will forever resonate in the hearts of generations to come. “There’s a world where I can go and tell my secrets to… in my room… in my room…” If I had to pick one song where the category would be- “what tune can you listen to for hours upon hours, all in a row?”- this would have to be the one. I know I have talked about the beauty of the Bee Gees vocal power, but I would have to add this group to the list of the best ever singing voices. In our summers spent in Otisville, my brother and I shared the same bedroom and those days I will forever treasure. Brian wrote this song about him and his brother’s sharing a room while growing up together. This song is a national treasure.  

18— “Dreams”—by The Allman Brothers-Believe it or not, Gregg Allman was planning on becoming a dentist until his big brother (and Idol) Duane persuaded him to join his band because he saw something in Gregg that convinced him that they were going to be rock and roll stars. Boy, was he ever, not only was Duane revered as one of the greatest guitarists to have ever graced this planet, but his “baby” brother left this earth back in 2017 as one of the most beloved music figures because on that day on May 27, millions of hearts were broken by the loss of his departure.  I do not know if there was ever a “brother combo” (except The Young’s and Van Halen’s) that lived only for music. The Allman Brothers loved their craft to the point of obsession where they lived and breathed to create music. Folks, Gregg and Duane (along with the other members of the band) have crafted a catalog that is really hard to top, and Gregg has to be considered one of the best singers of all-time. This masterpiece was written by Gregg after he decided to heed his brothers’ advice and is on their debut album. I am utterly speechless. There are certain people that are destined to forever change the world and both Duane and Gregg did just that. I know there are millions who are so thankful for their contribution to the world of music, the food for our souls.  

19— “He Ain’t Heavy, He’s My Brother”—by The Hollies– Allan Clarke’s time spent with the Hollies produced some of the utmost songs ever, especially this ultimate classic. By the way, Elton John plays the piano on the original recording. From the opening lyrics- “The road is long… with a many a winding turn… that leads us to who knows where… who knows where…” to the heartfelt lines- “He ain’t heavy, he’s my brother…” this tune tugs at the heart because of the love that a brother has for the other. I know we have had our ups and downs throughout our lifetime but as it states in the song- “so on we go… his welfare is of my concern… no burden is he to bear… we’ll get there…” I love you brother and wish you a Happy Birthday!