As we all celebrate National Women’s History month, I figured I would share a setlist of some of my favorite songs by female artists’ who have made an impact on the lives of so many people around the world. This playlist could be used at a dinner party or if you are going for a nice peaceful walk and of course you know if this is my list it will contain some upbeat tracks to get the juices flowing. As with the previous set of songs I have recommended, there will be many women who will be left off this list but again it is not purposeful or intended.
In my opinion, women are the backbone of family and the entire universe as their strength, love, dedication, intelligence, caring, and fierce devotion is what holds us all together as one big family. When I think of my mother, I realize the incredible ability to navigate through illness without even displaying a notion of pain to anyone around her, while at the same time performing as the leader of our entire family by keeping the peace through her natural ability to nurture her loved ones as well as building character with responsibility. And I believe everyone out there knows that special woman or women because for me it was also my grandmother’s, aunt’s and of course my bride who have shaped my life as well as my Dad, brothers and son’s.
I believe we should celebrate the women in our lives everyday while recognizing an entire month each year and so here is a list of my favorite songs by some of the best female singers this world has ever heard.
1— “Love Story”- Taylor Swift—Every time I hear this song it will always take me back to the night of December 13, 2018 when I was responsible for the setlist at my former employer’s Holiday party in lower Manhattan on the third floor of a restaurant and this was the track that I decided to begin the celebration. As I looked around, a few people nodded in agreement to the selection while raising a toast to celebrate the long year. Most of the people at the party are still more than former co-workers, more like family and friends for life. When all is said and done, Taylor Swift will be revered as one of the best performers this world will have ever heard. Songs are supposed to take you to another world and this song will forever take me back to one of the best night’s our “family” had ever celebrated.
2— “Lady Marmalade”—Patti LaBelle – This legend is still going strong and recently went head-to-head in a friendly “Versus” show where her opponent was another living legend, Gladys Knight. I wonder how Patty feels about singing one of the most well-known songs in the history of music. I bet this one song is known by more generations of people who have danced to it at a wedding or a party where even Grandma strutted out to the floor to the infectious groove while singing along to Ms. LaBelle’s glorious voice. This track is a national treasure.
3— “Wishin’ and Hopin’”— Dusty Springfield – Ask my family about how many times I have played this song since my children were born and they will all say that it has been on every New Year’s Eve playlist since we moved to Connecticut 21 years ago. I believe that Dusty was one of the greatest singers this world has ever witnessed and the list of tunes that she has left behind for all of us to enjoy are numerous. In my opinion, this is one of her best recordings that I can listen to for 24 hours a day.
4— “Someday We’ll Be Together”- The Supremes-This is truly one of the ultimate songs in the history of music and it became so tough to listen to after my mother passed away in 2004 as I am convinced that someday we will be together. As I have maintained on this site for many years, I believe the “Motown” years created some of the most beloved music ever and this song sits at the top of the list for me. Music is supposed to make you drift off into another world and this tune brings my mother back into my arms as I can feel her hug never leave me.
5—” Crazy for You”-Madonna – I can remember as an early teenager I was immersed into the world of “rock” and was gullible to the whole “disco vs. rock” scenario while actually loving the soundtrack to “Saturday Night Fever” which to this day I still believe is the ultimate soundtrack ever. Fast forward to the early and mid-1980’s while knee deep into Van Halen, Zep and AC/DC and in walks a superstar named Madonna. There is no way that I could admit that I liked a lot of her songs, that would be blasphemes, right? Again, a lot of this had to with being young and ignorant. When you hear (or see) talent, it does not matter what the person is or what genre it is associated with. My I-pod contains many songs by Madonna, and this has always been one of my favorites. To this day, she is known by one name only. Controversial? You bet. Undeniable—my apologies Madonna, I no longer have that issue.
6— “I Heard it Through the Grapevine”—Gladys Knight– Dare I say that I love this version of this track better than Marvin’s or Creedence? My oldest son begs me to not put this song on any party list that I create but of course I cannot listen because I am obsessed with this track. Glady’s vocals are mesmerizing and of course the Pips background style is infectious. I know there are so many songs to choose from but again it is in the ear of the beholder and for me, this tune will remain near the top of the pile.
7— “Gypsies, Tramps and Thieves”—Cher– I know many would be surprised that Cher would be on my list of favorite singers ever, but she is. Again, I do not want to sound like a broken record but even my bride tells me- “Please, not this song again?!” I probably have listened to this song more than any in my entire life (I know, I say that about every song,) and the proof lies in my I-tunes library as anyone can check to see what songs have been played the most and this sits in the top ten of all the songs that I own. (“The Way of Love” and “Dark Lady” are two other songs that are close to the top ten, LOL).
8— “The Living Proof”— Mary J. Blige– During the pandemic like many others, we binged watch shows and movies, including the extraordinary “The Help” which included a brilliant performance by Viola Davis. When the movie ends, the magical voice of Mary J comes into everyone’s ears and I was immediately polarized to the point where this has become one of my most listened to songs over the past year. “It’s gonna be a long, long journey… it’s gonna be an uphill climb… it’s gonna be a tough time… there’s gonna be some lonely nights…but I’m ready to carry on…” This track is unreal and captures the essence of Ms. Blige as I believe this is one of her best efforts ever. Thank you, Mary for enriching so many lives.
9— “MacArthur Park”— Donna Summer– I know that this is a cover and that there are so many songs to pick from by Ms. Summer and my wife is the one who really brought Donna into our home as she absolutely loves her music but for me, this tune captures everything about her vocal prowess. It begins with the angelic majestic start and then as the pace picks up, the heavenly voice still appears in your ears as you begin to realize that she made this song her own. I took my bride to the Broadway play about her life and thought it was great. Ms. Summer, you are extremely missed by millions. Thank you for your legacy.
10— “Like the Way I Do”—Melissa Etheridge– My bride and I witnessed Melissa right before she exploded on to the scene when she opened for Little Feat in the late 1980’s on the west side of New York in an outdoor venue (the name escapes me) and the buzz before she came on was intense. Normally, no one pays any attention to the opening act as most rudely talk to each other while the artist is trying to give it their all but the conversation that could be had before or after the show occurs as the opener is performing. Not in this case, as Melissa took the stage, she commanded your attention- she had “it” and before we knew it, she was selling out the Beacon Theater in consecutive nights in the early 1990’s. This tune from her first album has this unbelievable rawness that still bleeds with the intended passion today as when it was first recorded. My wife and I caught and rode the wave of Melissa throughout her career. This is a classic.
11— “Rumor Has It”—Adele– In my opinion whenever people hear Adele, the first thing that has to pop into their head is “this woman can sing!” We all know that she does the ballads as well as anyone this earth has seen or heard. This track has a little kick to it, like the hot sauce one puts on the buffalo wings for the Superbowl party and has a “slow-down” part that puts most in a trance, but the bass drums kick it right back to the dance beat. This has always been one of my favorites from Ms. Adele. Bravo.
12— “People”— Barbara Streisand– Talk about a voice? Barbara arguably could be voted the greatest vocalist of all-time and that includes her male counterparts. She has made so many fantastic songs and I kept coming back to this tune which I believe is brilliant. I drift off into another world as Barbara’s vocals mesmerizes me to the point where I never want the song to end. This could be one the greatest recordings in the history of music.
13— “Nobody Does It Better”—Carly Simon—Ever since I was a small child this tune captivated me like a spider weaves a web around its victims, I literally freeze with such appreciation as I believe there is no one who can sing this song like Carly. Every note she sings is perfection as the musicianship surrounding this majestic tune makes it a masterpiece, in my opinion. Carly, nobody does it better than you with this track.
14—”Forever”—The Marvelettes– Growing up in a household where the only era that existed were the 1950’s and the early to mid-1960’s laid the foundation of my “musical” career as an experienced listener. This beauty from the often-overlooked Marvelettes makes me want to take my bride’s hand and lead her to the dance floor, even it means leaving the kitchen table to dance in the living room by our lonesome. Thank you, to my parents, for exposing me to the greatest music ever.
15— “My Guy”—Mary Wells—This is another song that puts a smile on your face from the very first note and again I believe no one can sing it like Mary. There is something that is so special that a song that was crafted over 50 years ago can still bring joy to generation after generation. I absolutely love this song!!
16— “Hopelessly Devoted to You”—Olivia Newton John– I remember seeing “Grease” in the movie theater as a teenager and falling in love with Olivia’s character, Sandy, and when she sits on the rocks at the beach and bellows out this unbelievable tune, I was absolutely smitten. Even after all these decades, this song is one of my all-time favorites. Thank you, Olivia for being such a wonderful singer and actress.
17— “So Far Away”—Carole King– How Carole is not in the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame is beyond me, her contribution to the music world is endless as a writer and the beautiful singer she is. “Tapestry” is a landmark album and just for that effort, it should stamp her ticket into the Hall. This song is from that legendary album and one of my favorites tunes since I was a pre-teen as it reminds me of the summer’s I spent in Otisville N.Y. during the early to mid-1970’s, which are wonderful memories that come rushing back every time I hear this beautiful tune.
18— “Love is a Losing Game”—Amy Winehouse– After receiving a scolding from my oldest son who opened my ears again at the brilliance of Ms. Winehouse, he cited every song that she has ever recorded. Not only did she write her own songs but her vocal prowess opened the door for many artists who have tried to emulate her style but there was only one Amy. I learned my lesson and when you hear a track like this one, it makes you realize how much of an impact she made in a relatively short time. My apologies to my son- Thank you Amy for the recordings that you have left behind, you are deeply missed.
19— “Travelin’ Soldier”—The Chicks-As soon as this song begins, I am frozen in time and listen with my ears and heart. This heartbreak of a tune carries so much weight with the lyrics and the beauty of Natalie’s voice paints a picture that will bring a tear to the eye. The Chicks have made a huge impact in this world and I will forever be a fan. Like I previously mentioned I pray that there is a tour from these beautiful ladies after this pandemic comes to an end, because I cannot wait to see them live again.
20— “All Fired Up”— Pat Benatar – This song will always have a special place in my heart because it takes me back to my years spent at MBIA Insurance in Armonk N.Y. with our “work-out” buddies and of course I always tried to nudge my way in with my set-lists for bootcamp and/or spin class. Chris, the instructor, was very accommodating as I believed this tune was perfect for any spin class because there is a constantly pounding along with a slowdown to climb up that hill. As I have stated numerous times, Pat Benatar should also be in the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame and the ignorance is staggering. But I will end on a nice note- there are so many songs to pick by Mrs. Benatar and her husband Neil Giraldo that will enhance your walk or dinner party.
21— “Straight On”— Ann Wilson– (Heart) Obviously this is Heart, but I had to “single-out” Ann because I believe that she has been one of the most iconic singers in the history of music. I know that her sister, Nancy, Roger, Howard, Steve and Michael all contributed to their massive success. Again, there are so many songs to choose from so I would say to pick your favorite and add it to the list. This unbelievable tune is one of my all-time favorites- Crank it up!
22— “Dr. Feelgood (Love is a Serious Business)”— Aretha Franklin – Again thanks to my oldest son who is now the teacher and I have now become the student. When he mentioned this track to me and I listened, I was blown away. Flawless, seemingly effortless are just some of the endless accolades for this legendary Icon who changed the world with her beauty and voice. She brought President Obama to tears during a performance and so many generations to another world when she sings like she does on this song. There are so many memorable moments that each one of us can recall, especially the folks who grew up with her as the impact she made is staggering. I am speechless. Thank you, Aretha, you are so missed and loved.
23— “We’ve Only Just Begun”— Karen Carpenter – I melt like butter whenever I hear Karen’s vocals as she made my childhood so great because of tunes like this. As I have mentioned numerous times on this site, my mother and I shared “Close to You” which lands in my top five songs of all-time. I decided to go with another classic for this list as I believe the entire universe will know this beauty of a song. Her voice brings tears to my eyes. Karen, I miss you so much and wished I could have seen you live in concert before you left us all. Thank you for your legacy!
24— “Why Can’t He Be You”— Patsy Cline – As much as I love Karen, everything changes the moment I hear Patsy’s voice. I am immediately lifted off the ground and high to the clouds to lie down next to my mother in heaven and thanking her for introducing me to this wonderful woman. Patsy has a way to melt anyone’s heart as her crystal-clear vocals are astounding to the point where the tears just start flowing. When you listen to this tune, you can feel the pain and love in her voice which is so real, raw filled with passion, which in my opinion, no one has ever come close to matching. Whenever life gets crazy, my I-pod shuffle will land on a Patsy song and my mother is there to remind me to stop and smell the roses. Thank you, Patsy, for always bringing my Mother back to me, I love you both.